Understanding the BALM® Method
BALM stands for Be A Loving Mirror—a family recovery approach developed by expert Beverly Buncher. Research from SAMHSA confirms that family involvement significantly improves treatment outcomes and reduces relapse rates. BALM helps families understand addiction as a treatable brain disorder, not a moral failing, reducing shame while empowering compassionate, effective action.
Three Core Pillars of BALM®
Information: Understanding Addiction and Recovery
BALM provides evidence-based education about the neuroscience of addiction, the recovery process, co-occurring mental health conditions, and communication strategies. Since SAMHSA data indicates approximately 50% of people with substance use disorders also experience mental health conditions, BALM addresses dual diagnosis and integrated treatment approaches.
Transformation: From Reactivity to Responsiveness
Through coaching and guided practice, families learn to recognize and manage emotional responses, set healthy boundaries, practice acceptance, and develop self-compassion. When families react from calm awareness rather than anxiety, they model the emotional regulation their loved ones need in recovery.
Support: Ongoing Community and Guidance
BALM provides sustained support through weekly online group sessions, experienced coaching, continuous learning platforms, and an alumni community. Free two-hour virtual meetings allow families to connect with others who understand their experiences.
The BALM® 12 Principles
BALM is organized around 12 principles guiding families toward healthier relationships:
Stop obsessing, judging, and enabling: Learn to redirect anxious thoughts, replace criticism with understanding, and identify behaviors that unintentionally support continued substance use.
Start talking effectively, feeling inner peace, and enjoying life: Communicate in ways that encourage honest dialogue, develop practices that restore calm, and reclaim personal interests and joy.
Each principle is explored through education, reflection, and practical application.
What Makes BALM® at BriteLife Recovery Unique
Integration with Clinical Treatment: BriteLife weaves family recovery into our care model. Families benefit from coordination with their loved one's clinical team.
Trauma-Responsive Care: BALM sessions are facilitated with trauma-responsive principles, creating safe spaces for families to explore difficult emotions.
Free and Accessible: BALM is provided at no cost to families of current BriteLife clients and alumni through virtual sessions accessible from anywhere.
Multi-Location Support: Whether your loved one is at our Pennsylvania, South Carolina, or New York facility, or in New Jersey outpatient services, you access the same high-quality program.
How BALM® Transforms Families
Enhanced Understanding: When families understand addiction as a complex brain disorder, shame decreases and compassion increases.
Improved Communication: BALM teaches techniques to express concerns without triggering defensiveness, set boundaries without ultimatums, and offer support without enabling.
Restored Wellbeing: Families reclaim their own lives while remaining supportively involved in their loved one's recovery journey.
Healthier Boundaries: Families develop clarity about which behaviors they will and won't accept, learning the difference between supporting recovery and enabling.
Increased Hope: BALM provides a framework for understanding recovery as a process, helping families develop resilience during challenging periods.
Program Features
Weekly Online Group Education: Comprehensive two-hour sessions combine education, discussion, and practical skill-building, covering the BALM 12 principles with concrete tools families can implement immediately.
Individual Family Coaching: One-on-one coaching helps families navigate specific challenges and develop personalized strategies for supporting recovery.
Ongoing Resources: Continuous education about the science of addiction and recovery, effective communication, boundary-setting, self-care, relapse prevention, and long-term recovery support.
Integration with Family Therapy: BALM complements traditional family therapy sessions that address specific dynamics, heal relational wounds, and improve communication patterns.
The Science Behind Family Involvement
Research consistently demonstrates that family involvement improves addiction treatment outcomes. A study in the Journal of Substance Abuse Treatment found that family therapy approaches significantly improve treatment retention and reduce substance use. According to NIDA, behavioral therapies involving family members are among the most effective treatments for substance use disorders.
Who Benefits from BALM®
BALM serves families of individuals currently in treatment, BriteLife alumni, people in active use, families in long-term recovery, and anyone who cares about someone struggling with addiction—parents, partners, siblings, adult children, and friends.
Your Family's Recovery Begins Here
Addiction may have brought disconnection and pain into your family, but recovery offers renewed connection, healthier relationships, and restored hope. The BALM Family Recovery Program provides the education, skills, and support your family needs to navigate this journey with resilience and love.
You don't have to face this alone. Join a community of families committed to healing. At BriteLife Recovery, we believe healing happens through connection. The BALM program helps families embody this principle, becoming their loved one's best chance at sustained recovery while reclaiming their own peace and wellbeing.
Contact BriteLife Recovery today to learn more about the BALM Family Recovery Program.
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